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Penetration is intimidating and/or painful for many people. Inexperience, trauma, surgery, disability, curiosity, illness – there are countless reasons folks might want or need a small, comfortable insertable. As someone with both vaginismus (haunted vagina) and IBS (haunted guts), I’m keenly aware of how few […]
Some sex toys have a learning curve. The Njoy Pure Wand – which is beloved by so many for its firm, targeted g-spot and prostate stimulation – is somewhat infamous for being difficult to master. According to the Pure Wand’s ardent fans, the results are […]
If you’ve been with your partner(s) long term, you probably have (or have considered having) a designated “date night.” Date nights encourage you to spend time together intentionally, rather than just because you occupy the same space and share a life and routine. In the […]
My partner Buster and I have a whole bucket of butt toys, but surprisingly few anal beads. When HoneysX reached out about doing a review, I picked the Fun Factory Bendy Beads to remedy this shortcoming. Anal beads are a little different than anal plugs. […]
Welcome to the madness that is one enby’s quest to acquire and evaluate every flicky licky toy available at major online sex toy retailers. What is an oral sex simulator? When I say “oral sex simulator,” I’m referring to a sex toy that provides stimulation […]
With my birthday coming up (shout out to fellow Virgos who smash the stereotypes by being a fucking mess!) I’ve been pondering some non-fuckable things on my wishlist. Believe it or not, I do buy things besides video games and sex toys. Sometimes. But those […]
A few months ago, Peepshow Toys spoiled me with a kinky care package. Among the goodies were two spike wheels: the Doc Johnson Kink Spike Wheel and the XR Brands Lil Devil Sensation Pinwheel. what the fuck are these things? Spike wheels (also known as […]
Oh, the ups and downs I’ve had with the Filare Swirling Oral Sex Simulator. The Filare is an oral sex simulator from Lora Dicarlo, a small sex tech company that went viral after they were unfairly barred from the Consumer Electronics Show by the Consumer […]
(Content Note: frank discussion of non-violent transphobia.) My partner Buster started using they/them pronouns around the same time I started this blog. We’d long-since come to terms with both of us being some flavor of trans. But we didn’t feel the need to explore more […]
Geeky Sex Toys is one of my favorite indie sex toy companies. Their pleasure fare is all fandom themed: D20 ballgags, lightsaber dildos, etc. Sex toys are fun to use, but GST incorporates that fun directly into their designs, and then brings them into being […]