Work With Me

Welcome! My name is Betty. I’m a sex writer and sex toy reviewer based in the US. For more information on who I am and what kind of content is featured on this blog, see my about page.

This page is an outline of services I offer on my blog and social media. For inquiries about work outside of my blog, please email me (contact details below.)

Working With BettyButch.com

Before you send me an email about collaborating with my blog, please be aware of the following:

  • I am not interested in new affiliate programs*.
  • I do not sell do-follow links.
  • I do not accept guest posts written by businesses (or their PR teams.)
  • I am not interested in reviewing toys on Amazon.
  • I will not work with companies that are bigoted or “anti-PC.”

* I may make exceptions for specialized/niche shops, such as makers of fantasy dildos or BDSM gear.

So what do I offer?

  • Free reviews for indie makers and toys carried by my existing affiliates only 
  • Paid reviews
  • Sponsored posts
  • Advertisement on social media
  • Sidebar banner ads

Note: PRICES MAY INCREASE AT ANY TIME DUE TO WORKLOAD.

Sending Adult Products for Review

I accept sex toys and related products for review from:

  • My affiliates*
  • Indie makers (such as Etsy sellers, fantasy toy makers, etc)
  • Manufacturers whose toys are carried by SheVibe, Peepshow Toys, Early to Bed, or Pleasure Garden
  • Businesses/shops who pay for them (see “Paid Reviews”)

* I am not interested in joining more affiliate programs at this time. If you’re a shop and not already one of my affiliates, please see my Paid Reviews offerings.

What are my unpaid review policies? 

I only review sex toys that are made of body-safe, nonporous material. This means silicone, ABS plastic, glass, stainless steel, etc. I don’t want anything to do with “sili-blends,” TPE/TPR, jelly, vinyl, etc. (Bondage gear, impact toys, and lingerie/costuming can be made of other materials.)

My reviews are honest. The words and opinions shared will be my own, and based on my actual experiences. This might mean my review is fair but negative. I may also make comparisons to similar toys from competitors.

I don’t accept deadlines for unpaid reviews. I can’t pay my rent with dildos. I’m disabled, already have a paying workload, and do unpaid reviews in my spare time.

I will not review:

  • Toys intended for or requiring a penis (neither I nor my partner have one) with the exception of dolls
  • Porn that isn’t ethical and inclusive
  • Supplements, creams, gels, perfumes, or soaps

Paid Reviews

Paid reviews are comprehensive and honest. They are not advertisements, they’re genuine assessments of a toy based on first hand testing. For examples of paid reviews, see Review: Lovehoney x Romp Switch or Review: Twist Butt Plug.

What are my paid review policies? 

  • I only review sex toys that are made of body-safe, nonporous material. This means silicone, ABS plastic, glass, stainless steel, etc. I don’t want anything to do with “sili-blends,” TPE/TPR, jelly, vinyl, etc. (Bondage gear, impact toys, and lingerie/costuming can be made of other materials.)
  • My reviews are honest. The words and opinions shared will be my own, and based on my actual experiences. This might mean my review is fair but negative. I may also make comparisons to similar toys from competitors but will not link them directly. I may link to my other reviews.
  • Reviews will contain 3-5 links to your business. They will not be do-follow links.
  • I make no hit/click-through guarantee.
  • I will not edit or remove my post unless it contains inaccuracies. If you no longer wish to be featured in the post, I will remove your links (but there will be no refunds.)
  • The review will be posted within 45 days after I receive the toy. For guaranteed faster turnaround, there’s an additional “rush” fee.

I will not review:

  • Toys intended for or requiring a penis (neither I nor my partner have one)
  • Porn that isn’t ethical and inclusive
  • Supplements, creams, gels, perfumes, or soaps

What is my pricing?

  • If I pick the toy, $75 USD
  • If you pick the toy, $100 USD
  • (Even if you pick the toy, I will need to approve it before you send it. No sense in reviewing a toy I know won’t work for me.)

Paid reviews are 500-1000 words long post that contains 2-5 pictures I take myself. I will also share the review on my Twitter 5 times over 2 weeks at my highest traffic hours (afternoon/evening.)

Fee must be paid in full via Paypal 15 days before I make the post public.


Sponsored Blog Posts 

Looking to connect with my readers? A sponsored post is a great way to tempt them towards your business.

What are sponsored posts?

Sponsored posts are not dedicated ads. I won’t write a 500 word fluff piece focusing on your business. Instead, I’ll weave a mention to your business into a post about something relevant to both our interests. How Lingerie Can Reignite Your Sex Life and How to Use Sex Toys to Improve Date Night are great examples of what my sponsored posts look like.

I will send some pitch ideas for your approval before writing the post.

What are my sponsored post policies?

  • Sponsored posts will contain 3-5 links to your business. They will not be do-follow links.
  • You will be clearly listed as the post’s sponsor at the end of the post. This is non-negotiable.
  • My words are my own. I don’t accept guest posts, I won’t write false flattery or pre-written lines, and I don’t write dedicated ads on my blog.
  • I make no hit/click-through guarantee.
  • I will not edit or remove my post unless it contains inaccuracies. If you no longer wish to be featured in the post, I will remove your links (but there will be no refunds.)
  • Deadline for completion is 60 days after an agreement, unless you pay an additional “rush” fee for a guaranteed faster turnaround.

What is my pricing?

Sponsored posts of 500-1000 words start at $150 USD. I will also share the article on my Twitter 5 times over 2 weeks at my highest traffic hours (afternoon/evening.)

Fee must be paid in full via Paypal 15 days before I make the post public.


Social Media Advertisement

I have over 3000 followers on Twitter, and regularly post tweets sharing new products, sales, and commentary on the adult industry. A few examples: Trick or Treat Geeky Sex Toys, Satisfying Tantus Thwack, Wave of Uberrime Dildos.

I do these for established affiliate partners for free. If we don’t already have a working relationship (and I’m not currently interested in joining more affiliate programs), you’ll have to pay for them!

What are my Twitter post policies?

  • I will write the advertisement myself. I prefer informal ads, such as sharing a product and asking my followers for their opinion on its appearance, or highlighting something interesting about a business like free shipping.
  • “#AD” or “#SPON” will be added to the tweet to indicate it’s a paid post. This is non-negotiable.
  • I will remove tweets if your business closes, or at your request, but the fee is non-refundable.
  • I make no hit/click-through guarantee. I will post the tweets at my highest traffic hours (afternoon/evening.)

What is my pricing?

  • $25 USD for 5 Twitter posts, spaced out over a week. This is the minimum order.
  • $75 USD for 15 Twitter posts, spaced out over 3 weeks.
  • Ask about rates for hosting a Twitter-based giveaway.

Fee must be paid in full via Paypal before I make the first tweet.


Sidebar Banner Advertisement

Sidebar ads will be placed in the Advertisement section of my sidebar (bottom right.) Banners must be rectangular and no larger than 400×200 pixels. If you cannot provide a banner yourself, I will charge you an additional $30 USD to make it myself.

What are my sidebar ad policies?

  • Banners must meet my approval. I will not post ads that are misleading, misogynist, racist, fat shaming, etc.
  • You must own the imagery you’re using (ie don’t steal a picture off google and slap your name on it.)
  • Banners may have simple animation (or no animation) only. No flashing colors etc.
  • I will remove ads if your business closes, or at your request, but the remaining time is non-refundable.
  • I make no hit/click-through guarantee.

What is my pricing?

  • $65 USD for 90 days.
  • $200 USD for 1 year.

Fee must be paid in full via Paypal before I place the ad on my site.


Blog Sponsorship

I am not currently accepting new blog sponsors.


Contact Me

Blog business inquiries can be sent to bettybutch@yahoo.com! Please read my pricing and policies first.

For freelance or consulting work outside of my blog, please send me an email with your interest at bettybutch@yahoo.com.