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Today marks 16 years since Buster and I started dating. We were high school sweethearts, can you believe it? Hilariously, we didn’t like each other at all when we first met. But eventually we stumbled into a mutual love of Harry Potter. Magic was an […]
(Content Note: frank discussion of non-violent transphobia.) My partner Buster started using they/them pronouns around the same time I started this blog. We’d long-since come to terms with both of us being some flavor of trans. But we didn’t feel the need to explore more […]
At the very beginning of April, Tantus reached out to me about reviewing the On the Go Silicone Packer. It’s their first traditional packer – they’ve had the Pack n’ Play No.2 for some time – and I was super excited about it. Naively (or […]
There’s a long, wet, writhing history of people seeing the eroticism of tentacles. But I’m not here to talk about the history of sexualizing the powerful, undulating limbs of beasts both oceanic and fictional. I’m here to talk about me doing it. And dildos. (Content […]
(Content Notes: References to medical and dental issues, homophobia, transphobia, and poverty-related suffering.) A number of years ago, Buster was hospitalized due to a disastrous combination of untreated pancreatitis, pneumonia, an ungodly number of gallstones, and dangerous fluid build up in their abdomen. Because we […]
A smutty essay about dysphoria, rough sex that heals, and the harness that’s starting a story. [Content Warnings: Gender dysphoria, rough sex including biting and bruising, erotic framing of ownership-based tropes, mentions of poverty-related suffering.] – The setting: last December. Though I’ve spent the last […]
(Content Warnings: Heavy discussion of past sexual abuse, gender dysphoria, and fatphobia; frequent gif use.) My first orgasm was as Elizabeth Swann. And before you scroll to check who wrote this – no, dear reader, I’m afraid this is not a scintillating personal essay written […]
(Content Notes: D/s, gender dysphoria, fetishizing femmes, forced feminization.) Let’s talk about gender and femdom! Femdom, for the unfamiliar, is the title typically attributed to female-identifying dominants (or acts of female domination) in order to distinguish them from the abundantly male narrative of the D […]
So today I turn 29 years old! Holy shit. I’m finally reaching the end of my 20’s, which I’m glad for because they’ve been garbage until very recently. (What a fucking difference being above the poverty line makes.) Being a queer, poor, mentally ill 20-something […]
(Content Warnings: gender dysphoria, mental illness, suicidal thoughts, blood.) I’m terrified I’m about to get my period again, so let’s talk about why. I started menstruating towards the end of middle school, which felt embarrassingly late at the time. It only took a few months […]