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[Content Notes: Frank discussion of autistic burnout, mental illness (including suicidal urges), internalized ableism, and the woes of capitalism.] I’ve had depression most of my life, and bouts of suicidal ideation since my teens. These struggles are so normal to me that sometimes I forget […]
When writing my reviews for the Temptasia Pussy Pump and the Temptasia Clit & Nipple Enhancement System, my word count became bloated with explanations and tips. I have a lot to say! I realized this information would be more reader-accessible as a guide, so here […]
A smutty essay about dysphoria, rough sex that heals, and the harness that’s starting a story. [Content Warnings: Gender dysphoria, rough sex including biting and bruising, erotic framing of ownership-based tropes, mentions of poverty-related suffering.] – The setting: last December. Though I’ve spent the last […]
A new year, a new style of monthly wrap-up post! This one is all about sex toys: the ones I’m reviewing, the ones I’m using, and the ones I’ve spied popping up on the digital shelves of my favorite pleasure product shops. If you have […]
(Content Warnings: Heavy discussion of past sexual abuse, gender dysphoria, and fatphobia; frequent gif use.) My first orgasm was as Elizabeth Swann. And before you scroll to check who wrote this – no, dear reader, I’m afraid this is not a scintillating personal essay written […]
Yesterday, Tumblr announced that they would be purging adult content from their website. This is a devastating blow to a number of communities (including fandoms), but I’m especially sad to see a thriving network of diverse sex bloggers lose the home they created. It was […]
As my eternally patient partner can attest, I’ve been excited for Black Friday sex toy sales all year. Last year we purchased our very first body safe toy (the Anaconda from Tantus) and our collection has been steadily growing ever since! As a blogger I […]
Yes, that’s right – it’s not just flatscreens and toasters on sale during Black Friday and Cyber Monday, you can find great deals on sex toys too! I’ve assembled some of my favorites for your perusal, so take a minute to slip into something cozy […]
(Content Notes: D/s, gender dysphoria, fetishizing femmes, forced feminization.) Let’s talk about gender and femdom! Femdom, for the unfamiliar, is the title typically attributed to female-identifying dominants (or acts of female domination) in order to distinguish them from the abundantly male narrative of the D […]
Happy Halloween, sex positive pals! While it’s not quite time to don your (hopefully not racist) costumes, it’s never too early to deck the halls with spiderwebs and motion-sensitive nasties – and it’s never the wrong time to bring Halloween into the bedroom. From monstrous […]