Bondage & Kink

On Opening Doors, and Stories Written in Rough Sex and Leather

A smutty essay about dysphoria, rough sex that heals, and the harness that’s starting a story. [Content Warnings: Gender dysphoria, rough sex including biting and bruising, erotic framing of ownership-based tropes, mentions of poverty-related suffering.] – The setting: last December. Though I’ve spent the last […]

Queer Sex Diaries: On the Fly

Another installment of Queer Sex Diaries, a series in which I recount recent sexual escapades with my partner Buster.  (Content Notes: D/s, choking, verbal humiliation, spitting, biting, forced orgasm, consensual eroticism of ownership tropes, period sex, moments of transmasc dysphoria relating to genitals.) “Do you […]

The Power of the Prefix & Weaponized Femininity: My Nonbinary Take on Femdom

(Content Notes: D/s, gender dysphoria, fetishizing femmes, forced feminization.) Let’s talk about gender and femdom! Femdom, for the unfamiliar, is the title typically attributed to female-identifying dominants (or acts of female domination) in order to distinguish them from the abundantly male narrative of the D […]