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If you’ve spent any time in sex positive circles, you’ve probably heard the phrase “sex work is work.” It means that sex work – which includes performing in porn or on adult livestream sites, stripping/dancing, paid phone or text sex, and in-person sexual experiences – […]
It’s been weird getting back into the front-facing part of blogging. Answering emails that have been gathering digital dust for weeks. Peeking at Twitter. Trying to find the time (and the social spoons) to send pitches, answer friends, and make plans for the future. I’ve […]
If you’ve been with your partner(s) long term, you probably have (or have considered having) a designated “date night.” Date nights encourage you to spend time together intentionally, rather than just because you occupy the same space and share a life and routine. In the […]
Welcome to the madness that is one enby’s quest to acquire and evaluate every flicky licky toy available at major online sex toy retailers. What is an oral sex simulator? When I say “oral sex simulator,” I’m referring to a sex toy that provides stimulation […]
With my birthday coming up (shout out to fellow Virgos who smash the stereotypes by being a fucking mess!) I’ve been pondering some non-fuckable things on my wishlist. Believe it or not, I do buy things besides video games and sex toys. Sometimes. But those […]
(Content Note: frank discussion of non-violent transphobia.) My partner Buster started using they/them pronouns around the same time I started this blog. We’d long-since come to terms with both of us being some flavor of trans. But we didn’t feel the need to explore more […]
(Content Warning: depression, chronic illness, sex negativity, current events, pet illness/death.) 2020 was one of the hardest years of my life. The world was literally on fire. Florida unsurprisingly became an epicenter in the plague. The openly racist Orlando police attacked protestors and deployed […]
Happy Star Wars day! May the Fourth be with you, fellow nerdy perverts. To celebrate the occasion, my partner Buster and I set out to compare some of our favorite Clone Wars characters to the only thing more important than Star Wars: sex toys. You’ve […]
This past week, I celebrated my blog’s third anniversary by drinking some Jack Daniel’s Tennessee Apple and crying because I’m so behind on my review queue. Don’t get me wrong, this blog is the second best thing to ever happen to me. (The first best […]
I moved into a bigger place earlier this year. This gave me way more room for storing and displaying my sex toys. I’ve assembled quite a collection – including over 40 vibrators, 75 dildos, and 7 wands – and wanted to keep them organized. I […]