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[Content Notes: Frank discussion of autistic burnout, mental illness (including suicidal urges), internalized ableism, and the woes of capitalism.] I’ve had depression most of my life, and bouts of suicidal ideation since my teens. These struggles are so normal to me that sometimes I forget […]
A new year, a new style of monthly wrap-up post! This one is all about sex toys: the ones I’m reviewing, the ones I’m using, and the ones I’ve spied popping up on the digital shelves of my favorite pleasure product shops. If you have […]
Yesterday, Tumblr announced that they would be purging adult content from their website. This is a devastating blow to a number of communities (including fandoms), but I’m especially sad to see a thriving network of diverse sex bloggers lose the home they created. It was […]
As my eternally patient partner can attest, I’ve been excited for Black Friday sex toy sales all year. Last year we purchased our very first body safe toy (the Anaconda from Tantus) and our collection has been steadily growing ever since! As a blogger I […]
Yes, that’s right – it’s not just flatscreens and toasters on sale during Black Friday and Cyber Monday, you can find great deals on sex toys too! I’ve assembled some of my favorites for your perusal, so take a minute to slip into something cozy […]
It’s time to vote for your favorite blogs for your Sex Blogging Superheroes! Unfamiliar with Kinkly’s Sex Blogging Supero list? In short, it’s a collection of 100 sex bloggers that Kinkly assembles based on votes, social media metrics, and Kinkly’s own assessments. Being on the list […]
I don’t know exactly when I first discovered sex blogs (sometime in late 2016 or early 2017 probably), but I know how I did. Back when I was more heavily involved in nerd culture and writing about comic books, another comic book blogger shared a […]
Habitica is a task management/encouragement site where users can keep track of habits and tasks, earn gold by completing them (or lose HP for not getting them done), and use that gold to dress adorable pixel avatars in medieval garb. It’s an RPG-themed to-do list […]
Until last week, I hadn’t set foot in a brick and mortar sex toy shop in at least nine years. My early experiences with Patricia’s in Wichita were uncomfortable and alienating, and my recent reinvestment in Buster and I’s sex life took roots with online […]
Buster and I are a few months into this year’s commitment to prioritize our sex life, and already our toy drawer has more dildos and vibrators in it than we’ve owned in the prior 13 years of our relationship! It’s still a modest collection compared […]