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One of my favorite sex toys is the three-in-one Her Ultimate Pleasure from Pipedream. It’s the oral sex simulator that went viral on social media a few years ago. There are many (many!) imitators, but the Her Ultimate Pleasure Pro Dual is the first official […]
I’m autistic, and I fuck. Some people think these facets of my life are inherently incompatible. They’re wrong. But sometimes my autism and my sex life are at odds, and over the years I’ve had to figure out how to balance them. The abysmal roadmaps […]
“This clam is jammed!” I once quipped to a guy I was chatting up. It was a light-hearted way to start the “I can’t have vaginal sex” conversation that came up every time I wanted to get laid in my 20’s. I always try to […]
Grinding (also called humping) is when you rub your genitals against an object or consenting partner for sexual pleasure. It’s all about movement, texture, and friction: the slick glide of a vulva against a bedpost, the firm press of a penis on a partner’s ass, […]
I like toys that slap my clit until I come. This would have been inconceivable to me a few years ago. My vibration-lovin’ clit, enjoying literally anything besides a trusty bullet vibe? Impossible! But now my We-Vibe Tango is collecting dust, and I’m reaching for […]
There are a lot of sex toys to choose from. Innumerable sex toy options and innovations means that more people can find something that meets their needs. Which is awesome! But if you’re not already familiar with what kind of sex toys are out there, […]
The “Her” Ultimate Pleasure Oral Sex Simulator went viral on social media last year (in the original purple) because most people had never seen anything like it. It vibrates, it pumps, it licks your clit. I’m not a fan of the company that released it, […]
For some folks – myself included – dildos are not just pleasure tools, they’re a conduit for self-expression. Fucking connects me to an oft-elusive sense of peace with my gender, which is fluid and difficult to frame. So when I saw that Tantus had come […]
Forged in the heart of an indie sex toy studio, the mighty hammer Möan-lnir has no equal. It can be a weapon to destroy holes, or a tool to build to glorious orgasm. It is a fit companion for a naughty nerd. Sent to me […]
What’s a “couple’s vibrator”? Usually it’s something like the We-Vibe Chorus: a vibrator designed to compliment penis-in-vagina (PIV) sex. (The sex toy industry is pretty attentive to all things cishet, so there’s lots of ‘em.) But Wet for Her – a woman-run sex toy company […]