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I don’t know exactly when I first discovered sex blogs (sometime in late 2016 or early 2017 probably), but I know how I did. Back when I was more heavily involved in nerd culture and writing about comic books, another comic book blogger shared a […]
It’s that time of year again! A brand new season of The Walking Dead is about to unfold, which means I’ll be spending my Sunday nights watching a show that’s only had a handful of good episodes over its shambling 8-season run, desperately hoping for […]
Habitica is a task management/encouragement site where users can keep track of habits and tasks, earn gold by completing them (or lose HP for not getting them done), and use that gold to dress adorable pixel avatars in medieval garb. It’s an RPG-themed to-do list […]
Until last week, I hadn’t set foot in a brick and mortar sex toy shop in at least nine years. My early experiences with Patricia’s in Wichita were uncomfortable and alienating, and my recent reinvestment in Buster and I’s sex life took roots with online […]
So today I turn 29 years old! Holy shit. I’m finally reaching the end of my 20’s, which I’m glad for because they’ve been garbage until very recently. (What a fucking difference being above the poverty line makes.) Being a queer, poor, mentally ill 20-something […]
(Trigger Warning: briefly graphic discussion of rape and suicidal ideation, mild mentions of self-harm.) I have insomnia in the summertime. It started towards the end of my teen years, when I began to process the abuse I’d endured at the hands of one of my […]
(Content Warnings: gender dysphoria, mental illness, suicidal thoughts, blood.) I’m terrified I’m about to get my period again, so let’s talk about why. I started menstruating towards the end of middle school, which felt embarrassingly late at the time. It only took a few months […]
If you follow a sex blogger or sex toy company on social media, you’ve probably seen more than one giveaway post inviting you to enter and share in hopes of winning a beloved product. These giveaways are frequently done in collaboration between bloggers and companies […]
Ah, Autism Awareness Month. A hellish four weeks of eugenics memes, quack theories, and ableist “autism parent” sob stories being all the rage on social media, further spreading misinformation that’s been intentionally perpetuated by self-promoting “charities” that disregard actual autistic voices… and just in time […]
Welcome to 2018, where the binary’s made up, and gender doesn’t matter! No, seriously. It honestly floors me that sex shops – especially those of you that claim to be feminist/progressive – still use gendered language to categorize and describe products. From sorting toys into […]