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It happens to every sexually active couple or polycule. Life finds a way to get in the way, and suddenly it’s been weeks, months, or even longer since the last time you had sex. Cobwebs gather on your glass dildos. A tumbleweed makes its way […]
My headphones were tragically mangled during last month’s move. Since I don’t like watching porn on mute, my recent masturbation sessions have included scrolling the hornier corners of Twitter and Bluesky for saucy selfies. Unsurprising to those that know my fap habits, most of the […]
Content Warning: discussions of rape and domestic violence, semi-graphic retelling of sexual assault, and potentially upsetting “comedic” imagery If you or someone you know has been sexually assaulted, help is available. Post has been updated. Twisted Fantasies is an indie studio here in Florida that […]
I’m autistic, and I fuck. Some people think these facets of my life are inherently incompatible. They’re wrong. But sometimes my autism and my sex life are at odds, and over the years I’ve had to figure out how to balance them. The abysmal roadmaps […]
Today marks 16 years since Buster and I started dating. We were high school sweethearts, can you believe it? Hilariously, we didn’t like each other at all when we first met. But eventually we stumbled into a mutual love of Harry Potter. Magic was an […]
If you’ve spent any time in sex positive circles, you’ve probably heard the phrase “sex work is work.” It means that sex work – which includes performing in porn or on adult livestream sites, stripping/dancing, paid phone or text sex, and in-person sexual experiences – […]
It’s been weird getting back into the front-facing part of blogging. Answering emails that have been gathering digital dust for weeks. Peeking at Twitter. Trying to find the time (and the social spoons) to send pitches, answer friends, and make plans for the future. I’ve […]
If you’ve been with your partner(s) long term, you probably have (or have considered having) a designated “date night.” Date nights encourage you to spend time together intentionally, rather than just because you occupy the same space and share a life and routine. In the […]
With my birthday coming up (shout out to fellow Virgos who smash the stereotypes by being a fucking mess!) I’ve been pondering some non-fuckable things on my wishlist. Believe it or not, I do buy things besides video games and sex toys. Sometimes. But those […]
(Content Note: frank discussion of non-violent transphobia.) My partner Buster started using they/them pronouns around the same time I started this blog. We’d long-since come to terms with both of us being some flavor of trans. But we didn’t feel the need to explore more […]