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The moment I saw the CalExotics Scandal Silicone Stopper Gag, I knew I had to have it. (Content Warnings: A few NSFW (but not nude/explicit) images of Buster in a gag, with some spit!) I’ve always loved bondage, but my affection for gags in particular […]
This month, Buster and I are celebrating our first wedding anniversary. We’ve been together over ten years, but queers have only been able to get married ‘round these parts since mid-2015 and we were too poor to hop right to it when the Supreme Court […]
It’s raining, it’s pouring, here’s some posts that I’m adoring! That’s right, friends, it’s another Saturday of sharing. I didn’t do a very good job of meeting the goal I set for myself in my last SoSS – in fact, I failed completely. I challenged […]
The Big Oh! Box is a quarterly subscription box service run by two cool folks who believe “pleasure shouldn’t be reserved for any specific person” and have structured their site and their service around being gender and orientation inclusive. Their boxes ship out once a […]
Stop me if you’ve heard this one before: DFAB (designated female at birth) person internalizes the message that orgasming with a clit and vagina is a much more complicated affair than orgasming with a penis. They assume the rarity of their own orgasms is due […]
Kansas is a nightmarishly endless stretch of flat, snow-muddied fields beneath dreary gray skies; it’s populated by miserable white people who hate f*gs and chant during basketball like they’re summoning demons. My partner and I lived there for about a decade, often pretending to be just […]
(Content Warnings: Hair pulling, shoe licking, femdom, Dominance/submission, mild findom, reference to strap-on play.) He hears her heels on the hardwood floor in the hallway, but impulsively he decides not to look up from his computer when she steps into the room. It’s a mistake […]
Happy Saturday, y’all. It may seem a little premature for me to hop on the #ShareOurShitSaturday train since my blog is only a week old and still on its colt’s legs, but what better way to celebrate becoming part of the “our” than by spreading […]
You’d think a sex-positive queer couple would have amassed at least a small collection of sex toys after 13 years together, especially given how particular my partner Buster and I are when it comes to the bedroom. But unfortunately, our bedside table drawers are depressingly […]
465f1d50-4356-432d-be09-df9e37e5a0e4 The Siena Slimline Massager is a deceptively sturdy-feeling vibrator. At 6.5 inches long with a 1.25 inch diameter, it’s the bulkiest non-wand vibe I’ve ever owned, since I generally only use vibrators for external stimulation. I fell in love with the Siena the moment […]