7 Versatile Couples Toys to Splurge on for Valentine’s Day

Buying a sex toy to share with your sweeties can be a complicated task. Doubly so if your downstairs differs from your partners’! What can you do when there’s varied sex acts to enjoy – and bodies to please – but you only have so much room in the bedside table drawer?

While not exhaustive, this list of versatile toys for couples (and FWBs, hookups, or various polyam configurations) can help diversify your sex toy options. Some have more uses than others, but hey – you know your needs best.

Happy Valentine’s Day!

Wand by We-Vibe

This full-size wand is surprisingly light, and its incredibly strong vibrations are pleasingly rumbly. But what makes it an ideal purchase for couples is its versatility. While all wands can be used for any body, We-Vibe’s Wand comes with two unique, optional attachments, and one of them is optimized for penises. Need to know more? Read my full review!

SheVibe ($170 USD), Peepshow Toys ($180 USD, or $161 with code BETTY at checkout), or Betty’s Toy Box ($180 USD, or $161 with code BUTCH at checkout)

[Description: A black vibrator shaped similarly to a bicycle seat, with a prominent tip and two broad wings.]

Enby External Vibrator for Every Body

The unique shape of this vibrator might seem weird, but it’s actually an overdue innovation. You can slide it between bodies to enhance scissoring or tribbing. It can fit behind a strap-on harness for the wearer’s pleasure. And you can fold it to stroke a penis, or hold it flat to rub on a vulva. Beware, though, Enby’s modest vibrations aren’t for power royalty.

Betty’s Toy Box ($75 USD, or $67 with code BUTCH at checkout)

[Description: A light blue vibrator with a oval magnet clip fixed to its top. There’s a small white remote beside it.]

Moxie Wearable Vibrator

This small vibrator attaches to your underwear with a strong magnetic clip, which means you can use it no matter the size or style of your drawers. (A tight fit works best, of course!) A partner can control the strong, rumbly vibrations with the remote control or through We-Vibe’s app. You can read my full review here.

SheVibe ($130 USD), Peepshow Toys ($130 USD, or $117 with code BETTY at checkout), or Betty’s Toy Box ($123 USD, or $110 with code BUTCH at checkout)

[Description: A curved stroker pictured from the front. There’s ribbing on the inside curve. It has a matching round controller.]

Hot Octopuss Pulse III Duo

This remote-controlled, hands-free oscillating sleeve can encase a penis whether soft or erect, making a great option for folks undergoing HRT or who have erectile dysfunction. A partner can straddle the toy (or have it rubbed against them) to enjoy separately controlled vibrations.

SheVibe ($150 USD)

[Description: A kit including a number of anal play essentials, and a 50 page guide with a unicorn on the front.]

B-Vibe Anal Training & Education Set

Is “get into butt stuff” on your shared to-do list? B-Vibe’s paved the way for beginners with a kit that includes a thorough how-to guide, three plugs that offer different sensations to experiment with, a lube dispenser, and an enema bulb for folks who prefer empty pipes for play.

SheVibe ($150 USD), Peepshow Toys ($150 USD, or $135 with code BETTY at checkout), or Betty’s Toy Box ($150 USD, or $135 with code BUTCH at checkout)

[Description: A sleek black vibrator with a shaft that splits into two flat arms.]

Fun Factory Volta

The fluttering, vibrating arms of this vibe can be used to hug a clitoris or a penis to tease, stroke, or simply leave in place to enjoy the strong vibrations. You can use the tips’ flicker to tickle or torture at will, making it a great foreplay toy in devious hands.

SheVibe ($140 USD), Peepshow Toys ($140 USD, or $126 with code BETTY at checkout), or Betty’s Toy Box ($140 USD, or $126 with code BUTCH at checkout)

[Description: A gif featuring the outlines of two bodies sliding crotch-to-crotch with a purple vibrator between them.]

Wet for Her RockHer Scissoring Vibrator

This one-of-a-kind vibe is great for scissoring and oral sex with vulvas. If you insert the bulbous end, you can enjoy easier and more targeted oral because the smaller side “opens” the labia. You can take advantage of that exposure for scissoring, or flip the toy around and mutually rub off on the bulbous end. (The vibrations are on the buzzy side.) See my full review!

SheVibe ($75 USD), Peepshow Toys ($80 USD), or Betty’s Toy Box ($75 USD, or $68 with code BUTCH at checkout)

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Betty Butch (they/she) is a queer sex and relationships writer. By blogging about their experiences as a fat, trans, autistic person, they hope to help change the narrative of who has sex and what sex "should" be. Follow them on Twitter, Instagram, and Youtube.