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If you follow a sex blogger or sex toy company on social media, you’ve probably seen more than one giveaway post inviting you to enter and share in hopes of winning a beloved product. These giveaways are frequently done in collaboration between bloggers and companies […]
Ah, Autism Awareness Month. A hellish four weeks of eugenics memes, quack theories, and ableist “autism parent” sob stories being all the rage on social media, further spreading misinformation that’s been intentionally perpetuated by self-promoting “charities” that disregard actual autistic voices… and just in time […]
Welcome to 2018, where the binary’s made up, and gender doesn’t matter! No, seriously. It honestly floors me that sex shops – especially those of you that claim to be feminist/progressive – still use gendered language to categorize and describe products. From sorting toys into […]
This month, Buster and I are celebrating our first wedding anniversary. We’ve been together over ten years, but queers have only been able to get married ‘round these parts since mid-2015 and we were too poor to hop right to it when the Supreme Court […]
Kansas is a nightmarishly endless stretch of flat, snow-muddied fields beneath dreary gray skies; it’s populated by miserable white people who hate f*gs and chant during basketball like they’re summoning demons. My partner and I lived there for about a decade, often pretending to be just […]