It’s time to vote for your favorite blogs for your Sex Blogging Superheroes!

Unfamiliar with Kinkly’s Sex Blogging Supero list? In short, it’s a collection of 100 sex bloggers that Kinkly assembles based on votes, social media metrics, and Kinkly’s own assessments. Being on the list provides valuable exposure so blogs can reach a wider audience, and is an easy way to remind your favorite bloggers that you love their work and think they’re super!

I wrote about what the list means to me earlier today, but I wanted to also take the time to highlight a few other bloggers I think should be featured on the list this year (and every year.) Included with each recommendation will be a snippet from a piece they’ve written that I loved.

But before I begin, I wanted to clarify that I have decided to focus this list on fellow trans folks and cis people of color. There are plenty of fantastic bloggers whose perspectives aren’t relevant here, and I’ll be tweeting about them if you’re looking for additional blogs to follow and vote for!

Lupespace – Vote

“I love the shape of a woman. Women are supremely, divinely beautiful. Physically, of course. But women have an innate quality that makes them beautiful. Women are strong, women make waves when they move through the world. Women are makers and breakers. We always bounce back.” Queer

Kelvin Sparks* – Vote

“Let’s get That Conversation out of the way first. Scissoring is a real thing. It is a real way that people with vulvas have sex. Yes, you can genuinely enjoy it. While it’s not for everyone, scissoring is not just a “bad porn thing”, or a joke, and making people who enjoy it feel ashamed helps nobody.” Scissoring 101

*Previously Cyborg Dicks.

Super Smash Cache – Vote

“I know what some of you are thinking: “The fuck are you smoking? Getting bashed in the cervix hurts!” Yes, direct bashing into my cervix hurts, but it hardly ever happens for me. Inserted objects slide easily behind my cervix, where the pressure usually doesn’t bother me at all.” Cervical orgasms & stimulation: a BS-free guide

Mx Nillin – Vote

“I was tired of escaping one set of expectations for me, only to be forced under a new set repackaged as “transition”. I was tired of forcing myself into a narrative that wasn’t for me, all because that’s the only narrative that was put forth by others as being acceptable.” How I Learned to Let Go of the Hate and Love My Hairy Tits

The Black Pomegranate – Vote

“Every setback is a learning experience. It’s a guarantee that you won’t win every battle or right every wrong (it’s impossible to do so). Recognize that a setback isn’t a failure. Earnest efforts can be the catalyst for bigger changes.” Five Ways To Stay Woke (And Sex Positive) In 2018

A Kinky Autistic – Vote

“Take stock of what your disability makes extra hard and communicate that to your partner(s), and don’t be afraid to set limits, or to ask for more praise if you’ve pushed yourself – even if that looks different from other people’s pushing themselves.” A Disabled Service Sub’s Lament

Feisty Fox Films – Vote

“When you have a power-exchange relationship, there’s an intimacy there that most relationships don’t have without it. I like to play hard regardless what role I’m taking, and part of playing hard includes delving deep into how your brain works and explaining it to another person – the good, the mediocre, the bad, the traumatic.” Endings

Fairy Cakes Land – Vote

“First and foremost: At the end of the day, no man fucking owns me. The submission I give is a gift that my Master adores. My Husband didn’t trade a cow to ‘collect’ me from my father. I am and will ALWAYS BE my own damn person.” Balancing Act

Viva La Sexy – Vote

“So let’s revisit the flatness and angled handle again, because I need to explain my favorite way to use this thing: hands-free during PIV. As I mentioned above, the Sync’s shape fits nicely against the curves of my body — and this makes it very well suited for using during this kind of sex.” Sola Sync

Dildo or Dildon’t – Vote

Don’t break your arm patting yourself on the back for being kind. Yes, we are all grateful when we meet people who are kind to us. But it should be a standard, and because it isn’t don’t ruin it for yourself by wanting to be thanked profusely for being kind. How not to be an asshole to your insecure lover

Bex Talks Sex – Vote

“For me, consensual, deliberate, affectionate touch is like a skeleton key into my heart (and pants). Sexual touch is great, but the images I find myself playing over and over in my mind for weeks after an encounter are not memories of the way I moaned as fingers pushed pushed into me, or the way their dick felt in my mouth.” A Little More Touch Me

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This is far from an exhaustive list, of course. I have insomnia brain on top of my usual fog, and there are many folks who haven’t had their blog profiles approved to for voting yet. I will keep updating this list until the voting ends on October 13th!

And while you’re here… consider voting for me too?