{"id":5859,"date":"2021-09-14T21:07:21","date_gmt":"2021-09-14T21:07:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/?p=5859"},"modified":"2023-07-20T18:49:18","modified_gmt":"2023-07-20T18:49:18","slug":"kinky-sex-positive-and-self-indulgent-goodies-on-my-wishlist","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/index.php\/2021\/09\/14\/kinky-sex-positive-and-self-indulgent-goodies-on-my-wishlist\/","title":{"rendered":"Kinky, Sex Positive, and Self-Indulgent Goodies on My Wishlist"},"content":{"rendered":"

With my birthday coming up (shout out to fellow Virgos who smash the stereotypes by being a fucking mess!) I\u2019ve been pondering some non-fuckable things on my wishlist. Believe it or not, I do<\/em> buy things besides video games and sex toys. Sometimes. But those things are still usually kinky and\/or sex positive, because I\u2019m a living manifestation of whatever energy is associated with blue clitoris earrings<\/a>.<\/p>\n

I thought it would be fun to share a few things I\u2019ve been lusting after as of late. Maybe you\u2019ll recommend something equally cool in the comments, and we can cry together about how we\u2019re broke.<\/p>\n

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image from Redbubble<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Make an Impact<\/a> T-Shirt from Pen & Kink<\/strong><\/p>\n

Clever pun-maker and talented artist Pen & Kink<\/a> (who made my logo!) has a number of great kinky designs on his Redbubble. Right now I\u2019m obsessed with his black and white kinkspiration series, including this one! You can get Make An Impact as a print, tote bag, hoodie, etc \u2013 but I want it on a t-shirt<\/a>.<\/p>\n

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image from 101kinkythings.com, illustration by Ewa Zak<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

101 Kinky Things Even You Can Do<\/a> by Kate Sloan<\/strong><\/p>\n

Kate Sloan wasn\u2019t born to write this book \u2013 she raised herself to write this book<\/a> through years of freelance writing, exploring, and self-reflection. Whether you\u2019re a kink beginner, a curious bystander, or a kinkster looking for an excuse to ponder further possibilities, Sloan\u2019s got 101 things to talk to us about. I am so excited to learn!<\/p>\n

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image from thekinkery.com<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Wooden Wax Play Knives<\/a> from The Kinkery<\/strong><\/p>\n

I used to enjoy blade and blood play, but it\u2019s become a hard limit for me. These wooden knives<\/a> from The Kinkery are an ideal alternative. Not only do they make flicking off dried wax much easier (great news for me, I hate getting it under my nails), they\u2019re perfect for role playing. My lust for the purpleheart\/oak coloration is immense<\/em>.<\/p>\n

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image from NeedleFetish<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Weeeeee! Embroidered Penis<\/a> from Needlefetish<\/strong><\/p>\n

NeedleFetish makes pretty and often hilarious embroideries of genitals, sexy words, dinosaurs, and more. I\u2019ve been a fan for awhile, but recently Stacy started offering several designs as made to order<\/a>. Hopefully I\u2019ll be getting my hands on this whimsical weeeenie<\/a> sometime soon!<\/p>\n

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Smut Peddler Presents<\/a> from Iron Circus Comics<\/strong><\/p>\n

This comics anthology series from indie press Iron Circus has been on my lust list for years. There are now multiple iterations<\/a>, including Silver, My Monster Boyfriend, and Sex Machine. Comics are my favorite storytelling medium as well as my favorite porn medium. Every new Smut Peddler has a central theme that I find sexy for different reasons, so I hope to one day own them all in paperback.<\/p>\n

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image from amazon<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Good Vibes Only Neon Sign<\/a> from Amazon<\/strong><\/p>\n

I spend a potentially unhealthy amount of time mentally decorating my dream office, and one of the key components is a neon sign. As a sex toy enthusiast and reviewer, I love how \u201cgood vibes\u201d has endured through the decades as a generic t-shirt (and in this case, neon sign) phrase. The accidental double meaning is so satisfying! This one<\/a> is perfect<\/em>\u00a0to hang over my sex toy storage<\/a>.<\/p>\n

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image from ClosetPlay<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Fundraising Umbrella Dildo<\/a> from Closet Play Sex Toys<\/strong><\/p>\n

Okay, I confess, this is a sex toy<\/em>. My listicle is a lie. And it\u2019s not languishing on my wishlist \u2013 it\u2019s being sent to me for review! But can you blame me for wanting to get the word out about this donation dong<\/a>? Sex workers are dealing with unprecedented challenges in the pandemic. 100% the profits from this umbrella-themed dildo go to the Scarlet Alliance. A purchase feels good twice over!<\/p>\n

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image from SheVibe, illustrations by Alex Kotin<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Superhero Sex Educator Trading Cards<\/a> from SheVibe<\/strong><\/p>\n

SheVibe currently has three sets of sex educator cards \u2013 including yours truly<\/a>! (I still can\u2019t believe it. How did I get so lucky?) I already have an idea for how to display them<\/a>, so it\u2019s only a matter of time before my wall is host to numerous sex educators and sex positive influencers who are changing the world one post at a time.<\/p>\n

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image from Singletons3DCreation<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

3D Printed 3 Piece Vagina<\/a> from Singletons3DCreation<\/strong><\/p>\n

This is probably the most niche item on this list: a 3D printed vulva<\/a> with a removable clit that shows how extensive the internal clitoris is. As an aspiring\/quasi sex educator, I want to start accumulating teaching tools I can use in future videos. But also \u2013 what awesome shelf d\u00e9cor! Gimme a light blue vulva and a dark blue clitoris, please.<\/p>\n

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image from CliterallyTheBest of Hannah Witton<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

The Sex Calendar<\/a> from Cliterally the Best<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sex holidays! From sexual health awareness days to sex positive celebrations, the Sex Calendar gives you a heads up \u2013 and it\u2019s structured by date, so you don\u2019t have to buy a new one next year. Unfortunately I don\u2019t live in the UK, so I have to purchase a digital download<\/a> and take it to a print shop\u2026 but one day I will bother!!<\/p>\n

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This post contains Amazon and SheVibe affiliate links. Using them before you make a purchase helps support this site. You can also leave me a tip<\/a>!<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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