{"id":4580,"date":"2020-11-03T17:35:24","date_gmt":"2020-11-03T17:35:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/?p=4580"},"modified":"2020-11-03T17:35:24","modified_gmt":"2020-11-03T17:35:24","slug":"review-on-the-go-silicone-packer-by-tantus","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/index.php\/2020\/11\/03\/review-on-the-go-silicone-packer-by-tantus\/","title":{"rendered":"Review: On the Go Silicone Packer by Tantus"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-4602\" src=\"https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tantus_onthegopacker_11-1-300x183.png\" alt=\"The On the Go Packer in a pale skin tone, laying on a rumpled pride flag.\" width=\"620\" height=\"379\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tantus_onthegopacker_11-1-300x183.png 300w, https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tantus_onthegopacker_11-1-1024x626.png 1024w, https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tantus_onthegopacker_11-1-768x469.png 768w, https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tantus_onthegopacker_11-1-1536x938.png 1536w, https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tantus_onthegopacker_11-1-2048x1251.png 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 620px) 100vw, 620px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>At the very beginning of April, Tantus reached out to me about reviewing the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tantusinc.com\/products\/on-the-go-silicone-packer?rfsn=1447501.83eaba\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">On the Go Silicone Packer<\/a>. It\u2019s their first traditional packer \u2013 they\u2019ve had the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tantusinc.com\/products\/pack-n-play-no-2?rfsn=1447501.83eaba\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Pack n\u2019 Play No.2<\/a> for some time \u2013 and I was super excited about it.<\/p>\n<p>Naively (or perhaps desperately), I thought that in a few more weeks or a month, the pandemic would ease. I\u2019d be able to wear the packer to the movies, or while paddle boating at Lake Eola, or out to lunch at City Walk. I\u2019d be able to talk about what the On the Go Packer is like to pack with for several hours of activity among fellow humans. I\u2019d be able to make time for a couple of giggle-fueled \u201cgrab tests\u201d with queer friends who could help me rate its realism.<\/p>\n<p>Numerous boxes of wine later, and it\u2019s November. I\u2019m not going out or getting handsy with friends in 2020, and probably not in 2021. The only place this packer has or will visit is the grocery store.<\/p>\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_82_2 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-custom ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Quick Post Navigation<\/p>\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6adca2d99c3aa\" class=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-label\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #141414;color:#141414\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #141414;color:#141414\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/label><input type=\"checkbox\"  id=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6adca2d99c3aa\"  aria-label=\"Toggle\" \/><nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-4'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/index.php\/2020\/11\/03\/review-on-the-go-silicone-packer-by-tantus\/#tantus_packer_design_and_function\" >tantus packer design and function<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-4'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/index.php\/2020\/11\/03\/review-on-the-go-silicone-packer-by-tantus\/#wearing_the_on_the_go_packer\" >wearing the on the go packer<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-4'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/index.php\/2020\/11\/03\/review-on-the-go-silicone-packer-by-tantus\/#packer_fit_and_durability\" >packer fit and durability\u00a0<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-4'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/index.php\/2020\/11\/03\/review-on-the-go-silicone-packer-by-tantus\/#does_it_%E2%80%9Cpass%E2%80%9D\" >does it \u201cpass\u201d?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-4'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/index.php\/2020\/11\/03\/review-on-the-go-silicone-packer-by-tantus\/#using_the_packer_for_sex\" >using the packer for sex<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-4'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/index.php\/2020\/11\/03\/review-on-the-go-silicone-packer-by-tantus\/#final_thoughts_on_the_tantus_packer\" >final thoughts on the tantus packer<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h4><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"tantus_packer_design_and_function\"><\/span><em>tantus packer design and function<\/em><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h4>\n<p>If you\u2019re not familiar with packers and clicked this review out of curiosity\u2026 hi! Packers are phalluses that people can wear in packing harnesses or their underwear. There are numerous reasons people pack, including wanting to fill in the gap in \u201cmen\u2019s\u201d fit pants, incorporating a bulge into erotic play, or coping with genitals-based dysphoria.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-4621\" src=\"https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tantus_onthegopacker_06-300x192.png\" alt=\"A white person's hand holding the packer for closer side view.\" width=\"620\" height=\"396\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tantus_onthegopacker_06-300x192.png 300w, https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tantus_onthegopacker_06-1024x655.png 1024w, https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tantus_onthegopacker_06-768x491.png 768w, https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tantus_onthegopacker_06-1536x982.png 1536w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 620px) 100vw, 620px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tantusinc.com\/products\/on-the-go-silicone-packer?rfsn=1447501.83eaba\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Tantus On the Go Packer<\/a> is made of body-safe silicone. Unlike budget packers made of toxic or porous materials, silicone doesn\u2019t leech oils, stink like chemicals, or grow mold. It\u2019s also more durable \u2013 and more expensive. The On the Go Packer is $42 USD.<\/p>\n<p>This packer is 3 inches long and weighs 5 ounces. Tantus went with a realistic design, with a detailed head, frenulum, and balls. Its shaft is shaped to tuck and drape so it\u2019s not roaming around in your pants. The silicone is <em>incredibly<\/em> squishy and has a slightly tacky back so that it can stick to you if you pack bare.<\/p>\n<p>Seriously, the details on this packer are simultaneously affirming and mouth-watering, with a picturesque head and prominent dorsal vein that both invite nibbling. (This is a <em>horny<\/em> packer review, sorry friends.) The On the Go Packer\u2019s surface is textured like skin, including beautiful wrinkling on the sack.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-4618\" src=\"https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tantus_onthegopacker_03-300x192.png\" alt=\"A close-up of the Tantus On the Go Packer details.\" width=\"620\" height=\"396\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tantus_onthegopacker_03-300x192.png 300w, https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tantus_onthegopacker_03-1024x655.png 1024w, https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tantus_onthegopacker_03-768x491.png 768w, https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tantus_onthegopacker_03-1536x982.png 1536w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 620px) 100vw, 620px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It comes in 4 colors: purple, and 3 skin tones named after foods. <a href=\"https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/index.php\/2020\/10\/28\/8-ways-online-sex-shops-are-alienating-marginalized-customers\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">I\u2019ve already written about how I think flavor terminology for skin is harmful<\/a>, so I won\u2019t go into it here.<\/p>\n<h4><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"wearing_the_on_the_go_packer\"><\/span><em>wearing the on the go packer<\/em><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h4>\n<p>I haven\u2019t left our new apartment since we moved (except to vote.) My partner Buster is the only one running errands, and up until recently they weren\u2019t in the right headspace to try packing. They don\u2019t bind, and being noticeably gender non-conforming in public requires both emotional vulnerability and constant vigilance.<\/p>\n<p>But packing doesn\u2019t have to be a public exercise. In our 7+ months of quarantine, we\u2019ve explored it at home.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_4611\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4611\" style=\"width: 620px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-4611\" src=\"https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tantus_onthegopacker_08-300x192.png\" alt=\"A hand holding a pair of harness shorts with the packer in the o-ring.\" width=\"620\" height=\"396\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tantus_onthegopacker_08-300x192.png 300w, https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tantus_onthegopacker_08-1024x655.png 1024w, https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tantus_onthegopacker_08-768x491.png 768w, https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tantus_onthegopacker_08-1536x982.png 1536w, https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tantus_onthegopacker_08-2048x1309.png 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 620px) 100vw, 620px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-4611\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><a href=\"https:\/\/shevibe.com\/em-ex-active-harness-wear-fit-strap-on-harness-brief-by-sportsheets?rfsn=4817663.6e587d\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Sportsheets Em.Ex Fit Harness<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>There are numerous ways to pack. There are pouches that magnetically fasten to your underwear, <a href=\"https:\/\/shevibe.com\/mr-right-packing-strap-by-aslan.aspx?rfsn=4817663.6e587d\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">straps for around your waist<\/a>, and briefs that either have <a href=\"https:\/\/shevibe.com\/spareparts-pete-trunks-packing-underwear.aspx?rfsn=4817663.6e587d\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">pouches<\/a> or <a href=\"https:\/\/shevibe.com\/packer-gear-black-jock-strap-packing-harness-by-calexotics?rfsn=4817663.6e587d\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">o-rings<\/a> to hold the packer. Some people put their packer loose in their underwear.<\/p>\n<p>For Buster, loose packing is the most comfortable and affirming. The <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tantusinc.com\/products\/on-the-go-silicone-packer?rfsn=1447501.83eaba\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">On the Go Packer<\/a>\u2019s back is tackier than the rest of the silicone and is somewhat roughly cut. (Or maybe I\u2019m just spoiled by <a href=\"https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/?s=uberrime\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Uberrime\u2019s smooth bases<\/a>.) The tackiness isn\u2019t like melty candy. It\u2019s just a clingy surface, so there\u2019s no residue. The stickiness helps \u2013 and only <em>helps<\/em> \u2013 the packer stay in place if you\u2019re not using a harness. It can still slide around if you\u2019re doing a lot of moving or contorting, tugging your pubic hair in the process.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_4607\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4607\" style=\"width: 620px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-4607\" src=\"https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tantus_onthegopacker_07-300x192.png\" alt=\"The packer laying on a harness, compared to a chunky silver dildo. There is also a bottle of lube, a We-Vibe Sync, and a dental dam.\" width=\"620\" height=\"396\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tantus_onthegopacker_07-300x192.png 300w, https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tantus_onthegopacker_07-1024x655.png 1024w, https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tantus_onthegopacker_07-768x491.png 768w, https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tantus_onthegopacker_07-1536x982.png 1536w, https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tantus_onthegopacker_07-2048x1309.png 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 620px) 100vw, 620px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-4607\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><a href=\"https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/index.php\/2020\/02\/18\/review-they-them-silicone-dildo-by-tantus\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Tantus They\/Them Dildo<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/shevibe.com\/em-ex-active-harness-wear-fit-strap-on-harness-brief-by-sportsheets?rfsn=4817663.6e587d\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Em.Ex Fit Harness<\/a>, wearable vibrator We-Vibe Sync<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Even minor slippage makes me feel more dysphoric than not packing at all, so I like packing with my <a href=\"https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/index.php\/2018\/09\/03\/review-temptasia-harness-strap-on-briefs-by-blush-novelties\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Temptasia Harness Briefs<\/a>. The shaft drapes through the front of the harness ring, and its balls stay tucked in an inside pocket. This makes the transition to <a href=\"https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/index.php\/2020\/02\/18\/review-they-them-silicone-dildo-by-tantus\/\">a regular dildo<\/a> for strap-on sex more natural feeling for me, because I just have to swap tools.<\/p>\n<h4><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"packer_fit_and_durability\"><\/span><em>packer fit and durability\u00a0<\/em><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h4>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright wp-image-4604\" src=\"https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tantus_onthegopacker_04-300x264.png\" alt=\"The packer pictured standing upright on its balls.\" width=\"350\" height=\"308\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tantus_onthegopacker_04-300x264.png 300w, https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tantus_onthegopacker_04-1024x902.png 1024w, https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tantus_onthegopacker_04-768x677.png 768w, https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tantus_onthegopacker_04-1536x1353.png 1536w, https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tantus_onthegopacker_04.png 1614w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 350px) 100vw, 350px\" \/>The <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tantusinc.com\/products\/on-the-go-silicone-packer?rfsn=1447501.83eaba\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Tantus On the Go Packer<\/a>\u2019s softness and shape make it unobtrusive to wear. Even in tight pants, it\u2019s too squishy to bruise my pubic mound (and I\u2019ve napped on my stomach while wearing it.) This makes it comfortable to wear for long hours.<\/p>\n<p>The shaft is short and formed into a lax, center-oriented hang. I don\u2019t have to worry about how to arrange\/point it. The balls are longer and fuller, buffering the packer\u2019s head so it can\u2019t poke the wearer. This makes it super easy to situate it in my pants, and pack either high (where the bulge is more noticeable) or low (where it\u2019s more anatomically familiar.)<\/p>\n<p>Although more durable than TPE, the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tantusinc.com\/products\/on-the-go-silicone-packer?rfsn=1447501.83eaba\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">On the Go Packer<\/a>\u2019s incredibly soft silicone still needs to be treated gently. Silicone can get punctured or torn. To prevent damage, you should make sure to keep the packer adequately covered when wearing denim pants, and don\u2019t tug the shaft upward too often.<\/p>\n<p>Because I\u2019m a rough and clumsy boi, there\u2019s a miniscule split on my packer\u2019s surface where the shaft meets the balls. I\u2019ll have to be extra mindful in the future so I don\u2019t exacerbate the tear.<\/p>\n<p>Super soft silicone like this is a serious lint magnet. Sometimes a quick rinse isn\u2019t enough to unstick particularly clingy bits of dust <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/betty_butch\/status\/1322960186856906754\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">or cat hair<\/a>, so you\u2019ll have to do a quick wash with dish liquid. I prefer dish liquid over most soaps and sex toy cleaners because it\u2019s better at removing lint.<\/p>\n<h4><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"does_it_%E2%80%9Cpass%E2%80%9D\"><\/span><em>does it \u201cpass\u201d?<\/em><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h4>\n<p>Like me, Buster is fat. The size of our pubic mounds and thighs obscure the shape of our crotch, which also happens for fat cis men. The packer\u2019s bulge isn\u2019t as noticeable as it would be on a thinner person, just like a bio bulge isn\u2019t on many fat people with penises.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-4624\" src=\"https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tantus_onthegopacker_01-300x192.png\" alt=\"The On the Go Packer displayed on a Pride flag.\" width=\"620\" height=\"396\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tantus_onthegopacker_01-300x192.png 300w, https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tantus_onthegopacker_01-1024x655.png 1024w, https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tantus_onthegopacker_01-768x491.png 768w, https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tantus_onthegopacker_01-1536x982.png 1536w, https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tantus_onthegopacker_01-2048x1309.png 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 620px) 100vw, 620px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>On fat folks like us, if a bulge is the goal, skinny jeans or fabric leggings are ideal. (And oh boy do I love to grab a handful through leggings.) But even in baggy jeans the On the Go Packer still causes those imagination-stirring lines in the front. You know the ones I\u2019m talking about. Not a bulge, exactly, but a subtle catch of denim that draws your eyes, hoping the person moves in a way that better exposes the shape of their goods.<\/p>\n<p>While I wasn\u2019t able to ask friends about the realism of squeezing the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tantusinc.com\/products\/on-the-go-silicone-packer?rfsn=1447501.83eaba\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Tantus on the Go Packer<\/a> through pants, my straight cis roommate was up for the task. She groped and pinched for a few moments before pronouncing, \u201cOh yeah, that definitely feels like a dick. Neat!\u201d<\/p>\n<h4><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"using_the_packer_for_sex\"><\/span><em>using the packer for sex<\/em><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h4>\n<p>The On the Go Packer isn\u2019t made for penetrative sex (you\u2019ll have to look at the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tantusinc.com\/products\/pack-n-play-no-2?rfsn=1447501.83eaba\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Pack n\u2019 Play No.2<\/a> for that.) But penises have plenty of erotic potential beyond penetration.<\/p>\n<p>As <a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/3oQ2YI1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">author Mira Bellwether put it<\/a>: \u201cThe operating assumption in our culture is that only hard penises can have sex, that soft penises can\u2019t have sex and aren\u2019t sexy. This is deeply, deeply incorrect. The major difference between a soft penis [is] not whether it can give or receive pleasure, only whether it is hard and can penetrate.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-4613\" src=\"https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tantus_onthegopacker_09-300x192.png\" alt=\"On the Go Packer's durability tested.\" width=\"620\" height=\"396\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tantus_onthegopacker_09-300x192.png 300w, https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tantus_onthegopacker_09-1024x655.png 1024w, https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tantus_onthegopacker_09-768x491.png 768w, https:\/\/bettybutch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tantus_onthegopacker_09-1536x982.png 1536w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 620px) 100vw, 620px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tantusinc.com\/products\/on-the-go-silicone-packer?rfsn=1447501.83eaba\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">On the Go<\/a> has a really good mouthfeel. The skin texturing is pleasantly noticeable to my tongue. The squishiness is sensuously soft and pleasant to suck. I really enjoy licking the packer or having the shaft in my mouth. This makes it a treat for partnered blowjob play, or for solo use! When my mind wanders to a crush with a penis during masturbation, it\u2019s nice to have a toy to use either for rubbing against my junk \u2013 it\u2019s so delightfully<em> squishy<\/em> \u2013 or sucking on while fantasizing.<\/p>\n<h4><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"final_thoughts_on_the_tantus_packer\"><\/span><em>final thoughts on the tantus packer<\/em><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h4>\n<p>The Tantus on the Go Packer is my first proper packer, so I can\u2019t speak to its value against the myriad of options on the market. But I love it on its own merits. It\u2019s attractively shaped\/designed right down to the frenulum. The silicone is soft and comfortable to wear. The squishy density makes it an erotically soft addition to blowjob play or frottage. It\u2019s a quality packer made by a company that wanted to get it right and succeeded.<\/p>\n<p>You can get an <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tantusinc.com\/products\/on-the-go-silicone-packer?rfsn=1447501.83eaba\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">On the Go Packer from Tantus for $42 USD<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>(If it\u2019s outside your budget, watch Tantus\u2019s site for a sale! They occasionally have 30% to 50% off blow-outs. You can also check out <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tantusinc.com\/collections\/grab-bags?rfsn=1447501.83eaba\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Tantus grab bag deals<\/a> for great toys for less.)<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>Thank you, Tantus, for sending me the On the Go Packer in exchange for an honest review.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>This post includes affiliate links. 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